Relationships

Very often we encounter problems in relationships and the first thing we do – we blame. Ourselves. “I am different somehow”. We blame our partner or our loved ones. And what do we get when we blame somebody in our troubles? Nothing. Nothing changes. Everything remains the same.

We often hear such phrase: a human being cannot be reeducated. We should accept him the way he is. But it is being said by those who never dealt with the method to work with the subconscious.

There are two common approaches being taken in the relationship: to swear at each other, tell everything you think about a person, blame, get offended, blackmail , stop communication, take things as they are. Somebody even might think that beating a wife is a sign of love. I want to introduce a totally different approach.

This approach is called awareness.

Awareness – this is the responsibility without fault. If you are ready to approach your relationship and your life with awareness, if you are ready to accept the fact that everything in your life is being done the way you want it subconsciously for some unknown reason, then just keep reading.

This approach may seem difficult. But in fact, it is simple, logical and can start controlling your relationship and your whole life.

Once you accept principles, you will realize that everything in this life is quite understandable and logical. You won’t only perceive reasons of your unfavorable situations in relationship or lack of relationship at all, and the main thing is that you will be able to change them. You will be molding your life the way you want it. And there are no exceptions.

But you will have to get done with the sense of guilt once and for all. You will not have an opportunity to shift responsibility to anyone. If your man is not giving you gifts, you need it for some reason on a subconscious level. We look for reasons, transform, bang!! – he starts giving you gifts.

One woman, who is applying the method of working with the subconscious in her life, has recently written that a man presented her with one million rubles. And “Jaguar”. A car. Well, it seems that there is nothing special in it, somebody can say. But this girl has not been given any gift before; even her ex-husband didn’t pay his alimony.

What kind of miracle did she get? A miracle, she is quite OK with now. She found her subconscious reasons of why it is so important for her to NOT be presented with Jaguars and given money by men, too. That’s it.

The most important is to understand if we do not have anything, then we ourselves do not want it subconsciously. More than that, it is important for our subconscious that we do not have it.

If are ready to accept this idea, then we are on the same page. Each human being, each woman or each man has their personal subconscious beliefs and reason. But these reasons and beliefs can be changed.

This woman that recieved the gifts of money and a car. When she looked at her reason/ belief of why she did not want the gifts she realised that she subconsciously believed that if she got gifts from men that it means she is a prostitute. For the subconscious it is important to keep her from feeling and her self perception of a prostitute so the subconscious did everything it could to prevent that situation. And when it weighs the refusal of gifts and prostitution, how do you think what it choose?

While in relationship we are often too emotional. Therefore, it is very hard for us to stay in awareness. But if you can you will realize that it is all about you. Realize that we do not have to put up with our hard fate, that there are other possibilities – then absolutely everything will be in our hands.

Content of this blog came from the book How to let the perfect relationship flow into your life by Darya Trutneva. http://book-love.info/stacy2