Two important questions are: why and what for?

What question do you ask yourself when something unpleasant happens in your life? Of course, ‘Why has it happened?’

By asking this question we take the responsibility from ourselves; it’s much easier to shift responsibility for the situation and blame others. But try to ask yourself an absolutely different question: ‘For what reason did it happen?’

The question should not be ‘Why it happened’ but The reason it happened and why it was so important for me, Question “Why?” is the answer of consciousness, your own excuse.  “For what?” is the answer of your subconscious. “Why?” is an excuse! “What for?” is the real reason.

Yes, the answer might often seem strange, funny and ridiculous. It is normal. If your subconscious liked the answer, there wouldn’t be a unpleasant situation. To put it more correctly, you wouldn’t have regarded it as an unpleasant situation.

When our consciousness has some ideas and the subconscious has other ones, it leads to cognitive dissonance which is the reason for misunderstanding of what is going on around you, and stress.

For example, we do want to go to work, we know that if we do not go to work we will not be able to meet the deadlines of a project but subconsciously we want to have a rest. If the only way to have a rest would be to get sick then what do we do? We get sick. For many people that is the only way to rest!

Only when you know the answer and accept it, you can influence the problem. Exactly, influence! Not to look at it from another angle.

Information in this post is from How to Let big Money Flow into Your life by Darya Trutneva.http://book-money.info/stacy2